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Why Change Is So Hard: The Power of Habit in the Human Brain
Have you ever tried to shed an old, troublesome habit? Ever made a New Year’s resolution you couldn’t keep? If so, welcome to the human race. And welcome to your brain. We Are Creatures ... Read More
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Absent Fathers and the Implications for a Child’s Well-Being
The absence of fathers in the lives of their children is not uncommon. David Blankenhorn (1995), author of Fatherless America, wrote, “The United States is becoming an increasingly fatherless ... Read More
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Safe, Sane, and Consensual: The Bedrock Ethics of BDSM
Whether you read, saw, loved, or hated Fifty Shades of Grey, there’s no denying that its release started a larger conversation about BDSM in popular culture. It’s important for us to ... Read More
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From Phone Sex to Internet Sex: Addiction at Your Fingertips
I recently spoke with a young colleague who had just completed training to become a certified sexual addiction therapist (CSAT). She was astonished to hear my stories of what I jokingly ... Read More
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5 Ways to Improve Your Mental Health and Increase Happiness
Your mental health affects your overall health more than you may realize. When you are stressed out, angry, or sad, your body suffers, too—whether it be in the form of digestive issues, ... Read More
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Letting Go of Rigid Independence: Why It’s Good to Have Help
Why is it so difficult for some people to allow themselves to be helped? If there was a spectrum on which one end was total independence and the other was complete dependence, where would ... Read More
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The Unique Grief of Mothers without Living Children
In my practice, I see many mothers who have lost their only children during pregnancy or early infancy. They show up at my office struggling with grief and feelings of isolation. Some also ... Read More
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Between Therapy Sessions: 3 Handy Coping Skills for Trauma
While it’s true that working with a good trauma therapist enhances healing, not all trauma work happens in the therapy room. Even when a person regularly sees a therapist, the trauma ... Read More
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4 Ways to Get Out of ‘Mommy Mode’ and Into ‘Partner Mode’
The transition from being a wife or partner to being a mother with children can be a difficult one. Whereas before you could give all your time and attention to your partner or spouse, ... Read More
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Is It Friendship If You Have Nothing in Common Anymore?
Thanks for your question. I guess the simple and perhaps even smart-alecky answer would be, “Don’t talk about politics and stick to sports!” I have very good friends who disagree ... Read More
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9 Tips for Talking to Teens about Dating and Relationships
It happened. You knew it would, but you didn’t think it would happen so quickly. In spite of any hope you had of slowing down the clock, you woke up one day to find that your child ... Read More
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The Most Important Thing You Can Say to a Sex Abuse Survivor
A friend, loved one, or family member pulls you aside to talk. He or she is normally quiet and reserved; this seems out of the ordinary. “I have something very important to tell you. ... Read More