The Real Reason Men Might Fight Over a Woman

Most women might like to believe that men fight to win their affections. However, the aggression men display toward one another often has little or nothing to do with the woman in question. According to a recent study led by Sarah E. Ainsworth of the Department of Psychology at Florida State University, men are more inclined to engage in violence to exhibit social dominance. Research has theorized that the desire for procreation motivates men to use certain behaviors to attract women. Less is known about the factors that prompt men to behave aggressively when they are faced with competition for a woman. Violence is a serious problem within intimate relationships. In social settings, violence can occur not just between two partners, but between two adversaries. Understanding why men become aggressive toward one another when they are in pursuit of a woman could help researchers design interventions and prevention strategies that target the root of the aggression.

In her study, Ainsworth enlisted male and female participants and conducted an experiment in which the men competed against other men or other women in a mating objective, and were instructed to deliver aggressive noise blasts in order to win. Another experiment gave the men an opportunity to assert dominance and control over their male rivals through nonviolent means. Ainsworth found that the men displayed more aggression—louder noise blasts—to the male adversaries than the female adversaries. In fact, when pitted against a female, the men did not show any signs of aggression. Similarly, when the men were given a method of asserting dominance over their male rivals without aggression, they chose the nonaggressive approach.

Ainsworth believes these results are clinically significant. Although the men in this study varied in age, she believes these findings demonstrate one of the causes of violence, particularly in younger men more vulnerable to impulsive behavior. “In tying male violence to its more ultimate motivational roots, the current research provides a basis for understanding—and reducing—many seemingly irrational acts of violence,” Ainsworth said. Having insight into these causes can help with the formation of treatments for violent behavior and can help men develop the skills necessary to seek out alternate methods of achieving a sense of social dominance over rivals without the use of aggressive tactics.

Reference:
Ainsworth, Sarah E., and Jon K. Maner. Sex begets violence: Mating motives, social dominance, and physical aggression in men. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 103.5 (2012): 819-29. Print.

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  • Carl

    November 29th, 2012 at 12:44 AM

    A man will never want a tresspasser on his turf.It is more of a conflict for the dominance that men have an innate feeling of that is threatened when thy face competition for a woman.It is like a duel, what the trophy is is not as important as winning is ultimately.

  • Adds

    June 17th, 2016 at 8:57 PM

    So hang on women are a man’s “turf” and “trophies” ?

  • Danielle

    November 29th, 2012 at 3:53 AM

    It’s kind of like how we talk about the reason women try to look their best. We try to do that not for a man but to upstage other women. I think that men are the same way. This has little to do with the woman, as much as we might like to think that it does. It has to do with showing up another man and showing everyone who is the strongest both in a social sense as well as on the social scene. So the bottom line is that we are all doing this for each other, and yet very little is getting accomplished either way!

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