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Identifying the Partner of Someone Who May Be Autistic: They’re Usually Misdiagnosed February 5, 2020 . 44 Comments
Editor’s note: Sarah Swenson, LMHC is a private practice psychotherapist in Seattle, Washington, where she specializes in working with neurodiverse couples. Her continuing education ... Read More
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How to Deal with Loneliness in a Relationship When One Partner Is Autistic October 31, 2019 . 80 Comments
Author’s note: I write as if the couple here is an autistic man and a neurotypical woman. Sometimes, however, it is the woman who is autistic. Some couples I work with are gay, and ... Read More
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Is It Still Gaslighting If My Partner Has Asperger’s? March 11, 2019 . 193 Comments
Author’s note: It is always a challenge to choose genders when writing about neurodiverse couples. Here I use the example of an autistic man and a neurotypical woman. I don’t mean ... Read More
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Understanding Self-Injury Among Autistic Individuals October 22, 2018 . 2 Comments
Head-banging, face-slapping, scratching, and other self-injurious behaviors (SIB) are common among children who become frustrated. According to United Cerebral Palsy, up to 20% of all young ... Read More
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Narcissism or Asperger’s? How to Tell the Difference November 14, 2017 . 94 Comments
As a therapist working with people affected by someone else’s personality condition, I’m often asked the question, “How do I know if my partner is a narcissist or if they have Asperger’s?” ... Read More
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Can Help Parents of Autistic Children August 7, 2017 . 1 Comment
Parents of autistic children often participate in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to address emotional and behavioral concerns in their children. According to a study published in the ... Read More
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Autistic People May More Easily Ignore Cognitive Biases July 11, 2017 . 1 Comment
Autistic adults make more consistent choices, suggesting autism might make people less likely to be swayed by cognitive biases that affect their peers, according to a study published in ... Read More
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When You Suspect a Parent May Be on the Autism Spectrum June 10, 2016 . 69 Comments
There is a great deal of literature and support available for parents of children with the traits or diagnosis of autism spectrum (ASD). I write often about relationships in which this ... Read More
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Before You Blow Up Your ASD/Neurotypical Marriage, Read This May 25, 2016 . 19 Comments
Partnerships between individuals who have the traits or diagnosis of autism spectrum (previously including Asperger’s syndrome) and individuals who do not (often called neurotypical) ... Read More
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Married with Undiagnosed ASD: Why Women Who Leave Lose Twice April 20, 2016 . 632 Comments
Author’s note: A caveat before we get into the substance of this article: couples counseling with a skilled therapist can greatly help couples in which one partner has the symptoms or ... Read More
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Is High-Functioning Autism an Excuse in Your Relationship? September 7, 2015 . 34 Comments
If you are involved in a relationship with a person who has been diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, officially known as high-functioning autism (HFA), you’re likely familiar with this ... Read More
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4 Ways Counseling Can Benefit Autism Spectrum Parents July 14, 2015 . 20 Comments
Raising a child on the autism spectrum can be one of the most rewarding and yet taxing things some parents will ever experience. I know. In addition to being a therapist who works with ... Read More