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Authoritarian and Authoritative Parenting Styles: Which Is Best? May 2, 2014 . 18 Comments
People have their own unique style when it comes to parenting. It is not just about a set of rules; the style of parenting caregivers take on is a reflection of who they are, their culture, ... Read More
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How Can Parents Lessen Traumatic Effects of Divorce on Children? March 28, 2014 . 21 Comments
Is the trauma children typically experience when divorce occurs in the family due to the divorce itself or other factors that surface around the divorce between the parents? To a marriage ... Read More
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Why Feeling Anger and Hate Is Good March 12, 2014 . 12 Comments
“I hate you!” 4-year-old Carly screams at her mother. Some moms might react by grabbing their daughter and spanking her on the bottom, or screaming, “You are a bad girl!” or telling ... Read More
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Gay and Lesbian Parenting: What to Tell the Children February 27, 2014 . 10 Comments
All children want to know about their origins. As their minds develop and their understanding of the world grows, their questions go deeper. Toddlers ask where babies come from; teenagers ... Read More
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How Learning about Child Development Can Improve Your Parenting February 25, 2014 . 6 Comments
A great deal of what we bring to our roles as parents comes from the way our own parents treated us. This includes the big areas of values and morality, as well as the smaller corners of ... Read More
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A Parent’s Guide to Formal Evaluations for ADHD February 5, 2014 . 16 Comments
When trying to determine if a child or teen is experiencing attention-deficit hyperactivity (ADHD), it is important to obtain an accurate diagnosis and sense of how he or she is functioning ... Read More
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Managing the Milestone: Your Child’s 18th Birthday January 16, 2014 . 13 Comments
Over the course of a decade working therapeutically with adolescents and their families, I have observed countless young people as they reach a highly anticipated milestone in their lives: ... Read More
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My Parents Are Divorcing. How Do I Choose? January 10, 2014 . 5 Comments
Even if parents seem OK with a decision to divorce, it does not mean that their children have to be OK with it. Divorce changes a child’s world in a pretty major way. It is OK and ... Read More
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My ADHD Child Hates Therapy. How Do I Get Him to Go? November 15, 2013 . 10 Comments
Great question! I see this dynamic a lot in my own practice—parents or teachers feel a child could benefit from therapy, but the child is reluctant. Therapy is going to be helpful only ... Read More
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Unity, Respect, and Empathy: Recipe for Bullying Prevention? October 24, 2013 . 5 Comments
If you’ve ever seen A Christmas Story, then you probably remember the words of the yellow-eyed, redheaded Scut Farkus as he taunts and tortures 9-year-old Ralphie Parker: “Come on, ... Read More
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Emotional Outcomes for Child Witnesses to Domestic Violence October 11, 2013 . 12 Comments
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, or a time to begin to understand the effects of domestic violence, which have been researched extensively. Domestic violence is a social problem, ... Read More
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Nature and Nurture: Effects on Friendships in Adolescence August 28, 2013 . 4 Comments
When choosing friends in childhood, many young people seem to gravitate toward peers with a history of delinquency or delinquent behavior. Delinquent peer affiliation (DPA) occurs most ... Read More