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When Children Say, “I Don’t Like You”… February 3, 2011 . 9 Comments
Hearing “I don’t like you!” from your child can hurt, but don’t believe that they really don’t like you. Kids, as young as 2, learn to say “No;” they have ... Read More
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Kids and Sexuality: It’s Time to Stop Walking on Eggshells January 13, 2011 . 15 Comments
When we think of sex therapy, we generally assume this takes place with (and is for) adults or couples. This neglects the importance of helping our children understand sexuality and ... Read More
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The Real-World Worst-Case Scenario of Untreated ADHD January 7, 2011 . 14 Comments
Despite the perceived over-diagnosis and over-medication of ADHD among children, not addressing attention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity problems is also problematic. Kids whose symptoms ... Read More
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Therapeutic Play: A Tool in Nurturing Attachment December 6, 2010 . 9 Comments
During therapeutic play with children, therapists watch, listen, and interact during moments when a child may be giving voice to images, emotion, and story. “Image” implies an object ... Read More
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Tips for Managing Temper Tantrums October 27, 2010 . 3 Comments
Temper tantrums can be very frustrating to deal with. All children have a temper tantrum at one point in time or another. They can happen in the home, school, in grocery stores, although ... Read More
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The Eating Disorder Board Game October 5, 2010 . 11 Comments
I often say, when explaining eating disorders, that someday I’m going to invent the Eating Disorder Board Game. I certainly don’t mean to make light of eating disorders. They are serious ... Read More
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‘My Child Is Cutting’: Understanding Self-Harm September 9, 2010 . 238 Comments
Cutting is the physical expression of hidden mental pain. Children may begin cutting or engaging in other forms of self-harm when their mental pain reaches a level that they can no longer ... Read More
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Bird Nesting: Advantages and Disadvantages of this Custody Option September 3, 2010 . 5 Comments
Parents often ask me to describe what options they have for their post-divorce living arrangements. In addition to the many ways it is possible for children go back and forth between two ... Read More
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Parenting for Healthy Self-Esteem August 16, 2010 . 6 Comments
Self-esteem is a relational term. It describes a relationship between you and yourself. Having a solid sense of esteem for yourself puts you squarely in a partnership that is nurturing ... Read More
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What Is Codependency? An Introduction July 28, 2010 . 14 Comments
Codependency is a pattern of behaviors and beliefs learned by children of dysfunctional families while they are growing up. These behaviors and beliefs can be helpful to the family unit, ... Read More
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Doting Mothers Cause Depressed Kids, Once Grown? June 26, 2010 . 15 Comments
Perceived favoritism on the part of a mother can cause long-term psychological effects on all her children well into adulthood, according to new research. Gerontologist Karl Pillemer from ... Read More
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Study Measures Impact of Parental Suicide on Children April 23, 2010 . 364 Comments
Many children grow up facing distinct challenges within their family lives, though some are presented with pronounced difficulty that may have the potential to negatively impact the child’s ... Read More