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When There Is No Getting Away: The Grief of Sibling Bullying December 19, 2017 . 38 Comments
Maybe there is an increase of bullying in our society. Maybe there is an increase in awareness. Either way, it is getting a lot of attention these days. Teachers and parents are sensitized ... Read More
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Just Say No to Saying ‘No’: Better Ways to Improve a Child’s Behavior November 30, 2017 . 3 Comments
“[W]hen you’re little, your life is up. The future is up. Everything you want is up. ‘Wait up! Hold up! Shut up! Mom, I’ll clean up! Let me stay up!’ Parents, of course, ... Read More
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What Not to Say When Your Child Comes Out as Transgender November 17, 2017 . 6 Comments
In my practice, I work with many people who are transgender. The ages of those I’ve worked with over the years range from 5 (yes, 5) to 65, and the single most common complaint I ... Read More
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12 Secrets to Teaching Your Child How to Manage Their Emotions November 7, 2017 . 10 Comments
Giving children coping skills for their emotions is one of the most important tasks of parenting. Children lacking these tools may blame others for how they feel or demonstrate how they’re ... Read More
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Your Children Can’t Give Back the Trust You’ve Lost in Them October 23, 2017 . 13 Comments
In my office, I hear angry parents snap in frustration at their kids. “You broke my trust!” “You have to earn my trust back!” “You’ve got to rebuild my trust!” These parents ... Read More
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Help! My Teenage Daughter Won’t Listen to Me October 13, 2017 . 12 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, My daughter won’t listen to me! She is 15 and thinks she has everything figured out. She yells at me all the time and says nasty things. I caught her using drugs ... Read More
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Ignore, Respond, or Tell Someone? Dealing with Bullying October 11, 2017 . 3 Comments
October is National Bullying Prevention Month, a month which lasts all year for many, as bullying is far too common. According to the National Bullying Prevention Center, more than one ... Read More
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Kids May Benefit from Witnessing Some Arguments Between Parents September 27, 2017 . 3 Comments
Contrary to popular belief, witnessing arguments between parents may not always be bad for children. According to new research published in the Journal of Family Psychology, it’s how ... Read More
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Exclusion from School Linked to Poor Mental Health in Children September 13, 2017 . 2 Comments
Exclusion from school, such as through suspension or expulsion, is correlated with psychological distress and increased risk of long-term mental health issues, according to a study published ... Read More
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Emotional Regulation and Children, Part 2: Boundaries and Tantrums August 21, 2017 . 6 Comments
Considering the outpouring of support and positive feedback I’ve received since my last article, “Emotional Regulation and Children: Tips for Caregivers,” I thought I would continue ... Read More
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How to Talk to Kids About Tragedies and Violence, and Other News August 18, 2017 . 4 Comments
In the wake of terror attacks and acts of violence around the world—such as the white supremacy demonstrations in Charlottesville, Virginia, that led a man to plough a vehicle into a ... Read More
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Self-Care Tips for Parents of Special Needs Children August 10, 2017 . 10 Comments
Being the parent of a child with a disability carries with it unique responsibilities, stressors, and rewards. It requires an extra dose of emotional resilience, perseverance, and resourcefulness. ... Read More