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Divorce and Children: Fostering Self-Love and Affirmations July 11, 2024 . 1 Comment
Divorce can be a deeply challenging and emotional time for both parents and children. As a professional counselor, I understand the importance of ensuring that children feel loved, secure, ... Read More
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Is it Really High Conflict Divorce or Post Separation Abuse? October 10, 2023 . No Comments
Some couples can divorce amicably, some can divorce bumpy but tolerably, and some go through what is societally called a “high conflict” divorce. According to divorcenet.com, high conflict ... Read More
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Putting Kids First: Choosing Marital Partnerships and Co-Parenting over Divorce September 8, 2021 . No Comments
Putting Kids First: Choosing Martial Partnerships and Co-Parenting over Divorce As many couples find out the hard way, the spark that led to them falling in love and getting married doesn’t ... Read More
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Top 5 Reasons a Partner Leaves (and How to Cope) July 24, 2021 . 336 Comments
Trying to figure out why your partner/spouse left you can become the bane of your existence. Even if there appears on the surface to be an obvious and uncomfortable reason, your brain will ... Read More
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The Art of Effective Co-Parenting March 1, 2021 . No Comments
By Bren M. Chasse, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist The Art of Effective Co-Parenting “Co-parenting is not a competition. It’s a collaboration of two homes working together ... Read More
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Can Mental Health Issues Be Used Against You In a Child Custody Dispute? December 15, 2018 . 5 Comments
Infographic Text: Can mental health issues be used against you in a child custody dispute? Yes, but only if your condition affects your ability to parent your child. You are more likely ... Read More
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When One Partner Wants to Leave and the Other Wants to Stay May 23, 2018 . 6 Comments
What do you to when one person wants to leave their marriage and the other person wants to keep working on it? The would-be marriage leaver may have limited motivation to work on the relationship. ... Read More
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7 Ways to Succeed at Couples Therapy May 3, 2018 . 1 Comment
Are you feeling hopeless about your relationship? Has your marriage devolved into a manipulative game of tit for tat? Or perhaps you’ve both withdrawn and haven’t had a meaningful exchange ... Read More
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Stay Together for the Kids? When Divorce Might Benefit Everyone September 7, 2017 . 9 Comments
As parents and/or as mental health professionals, we might assume divorce always has a negative emotional impact on children. When children are exposed to chronic conflict between their ... Read More
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The ‘Four Cs’ of Relationship Conflict That May Predict Divorce June 15, 2017 . 7 Comments
Marriage symbolizes the beginning of a (hopefully) lifelong commitment, so it makes sense couples tend to spend a lot of time and energy preparing for this milestone. Yet, while many engaged ... Read More
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Child or Weapon? The Psychological Dynamics of Parental Alienation June 15, 2017 . 37 Comments
Parental alienation syndrome (PAS), a term coined by Richard A. Gardner in the 1980s, describes a condition—usually generated in the context of divorce or child custody disputes—in ... Read More
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7 Tips for Communicating with Your Children About Your Divorce April 13, 2017 . 6 Comments
Divorce is typically a sensitive and emotional event and can be quite difficult to talk about, especially with children. It is common for parents to struggle with how to talk to their children ... Read More