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Some People Are Stuck at Home with Abusers. What Can They Do? March 23, 2020 . 5 Comments
Even those in emotionally healthy homes are feeling the strain of so much togetherness at this time of uncertainty and social distancing. But for some, this is their worst nightmare. Distance ... Read More
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Why It’s Important to Recognize Male Survivors of Domestic Abuse October 27, 2018 . No Comments
According to data from the U.S. Department of Justice, most intimate partner violence (82%) is committed against women. Increased awareness of domestic violence against women has spurred ... Read More
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Abuse Amnesia: Why We Stay with Our Abusive Partners October 3, 2017 . 6 Comments
People often wonder why those they care about stay with romantic partners who hurt them. It’s a good question on the surface, but the answer is much more complicated. When people are ... Read More
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Consensual BDSM versus Abuse: Guidelines for Couples Therapy August 17, 2017 . 5 Comments
You consider yourself an open-minded therapist. As such, you feel ready to accept and understand almost anyone who walks through your office doors, whatever concern or issue they bring ... Read More
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What It Feels Like to Be Stalked (Let Alone Three Times) January 13, 2017 . 16 Comments
Stalking. The word alone inspires fear and anxiety in many people. For those of us who have experienced it, it may conjure painful images we never stop seeing, no matter how hard we try. Although ... Read More
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Is It Domestic Violence If I Am Not Being Hit? October 13, 2016 . 12 Comments
Many people struggle to understand how our culture defines domestic violence. Some believe that to constitute domestic violence, a person must be beaten or violently struck in some way. ... Read More
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Reclaiming Your Voice: Saying No to Emotional Abuse July 7, 2016 . 34 Comments
The term “domestic violence” is an umbrella term that encompasses so much more than just physical violence. It involves a pattern of manipulative behaviors meant to control and maintain ... Read More
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We Need to Talk about Domestic Violence in Our Communities October 15, 2015 . 22 Comments
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. The more we talk about domestic violence, the more likely it becomes that we build awareness, identify abusive behaviors, and take action to ... Read More
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Stages of Trauma Recovery: What It Means to Be a ‘Survivor’ August 3, 2015 . 20 Comments
I was recently reading a blog post and noticed that someone in the comment section asked the question: “What does it mean when we refer to someone as a survivor?” We hear about “survivors” ... Read More
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Secondhand Hurt: The Impact of Domestic Violence on Children April 9, 2015 . 15 Comments
The continuum of exposure to domestic violence ranges from chronic arguing and yelling to controlling behaviors, threats, and intimidation, to physical threats, threats of suicide or murder, ... Read More
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8 Ways to Help with Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention April 7, 2015 . 13 Comments
Sexual assault, a difficult subject for many people to talk or even think about, is an unfortunate reality for the approximately 250,000 people who are sexually assaulted in the United ... Read More
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‘Hoover Maneuver’: The Dirty Secret of Emotional Abuse February 19, 2015 . 162 Comments
People encounter those with narcissism in love, work, and family relationships. When I provide psychotherapy for survivors of narcissistic abuse, one of the first steps in the healing process ... Read More