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Gaslighting Emotional Abuse January 3, 2023 . 1 Comment
Gaslighting emotional abuse in which an abuser manipulates the victim into believing their thoughts, feelings, and perceptions are invalid. This manipulation leads to a deep mistrust, lowered ... Read More
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What Makes Clergy Abuse So Different? March 22, 2021 . No Comments
by Mary Alexander, JD What Makes Clergy Abuse So Different? Acts of sexual abuse are inexcusable. Acts of sexual abuse at the hands of priests, clergy, and other religious leaders are ... Read More
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Silent Treatment: Preferred Weapon of People with Narcissism June 2, 2020 . 849 Comments
For those in or getting out of a romantic relationship with a self-absorbed individual, the silent treatment can feel like a punishment worse than death. Why Narcissistic People Use the ... Read More
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Enmeshment and Blurred Boundaries: Emotional Incest Explained February 10, 2020 . 5 Comments
Emotional incest, also known as covert incest, has nothing to do with incestuous sexual abuse. Rather, it is an unhealthy emotional relationship between a parent and a child that blurs ... Read More
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Red Flags: Are you Being Emotionally Manipulated? September 17, 2019 . 28 Comments
Emotional manipulation can undermine close personal relationships and leave the manipulation victim feeling powerless, confused, and frustrated. Yet all people manipulate others from time ... Read More
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Common Questions Asked by People Healing from Narcissistic Abuse May 7, 2018 . 11 Comments
I work daily with people who have experienced narcissistic abuse. Some grew up in a household with a narcissistic parent. Others are married to someone with narcissism. Still others may ... Read More
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Relational Aggression: The Bullying Hidden in Plain Sight October 18, 2017 . 21 Comments
Bullying is described as a behavior marked by two distinct features: the intent to create a power imbalance and the frequency with which it occurs. There are various strategies used to ... Read More
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Is It Abuse When My Partner Calls Me Names? July 28, 2017 . 16 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I don’t think my relationship with my boyfriend is that bad, but some of my friends beg to differ. Mainly, they are concerned about some of the language he uses ... Read More
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Learning to Trust Again After Gaslighting March 6, 2017 . 38 Comments
Gaslighting is in the news these days. In simple terms, to gaslight is to treat another person in a way that makes them doubt their own perceptions. We can see this behavior on a large ... Read More
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The Blameless Burden: Scapegoating in Dysfunctional Families January 30, 2017 . 307 Comments
In biblical lore, Aaron selected a goat on behalf of the entire tribe, cast upon it the sins of all members, and then banished it alone to the wild. The members of the tribe were then at ... Read More
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Why Is Emotional Abuse So Difficult to Recognize? January 27, 2017 . 17 Comments
Emotional abuse can be every bit as devastating to individuals and relationships as physical and sexual abuse. And the pain of experiencing emotional abuse can be heightened when you feel ... Read More
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How to Heal from the Narcissistic Abuse of a Parent November 16, 2016 . 26 Comments
To recover from the emotional abuse caused by a parent with narcissistic tendencies, you must repair your reality—a reality that has been skewed and damaged by your experience of parenting. ... Read More