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Healing from Trauma Does Not Hinge on Forgiveness April 5, 2021 . 2 Comments
by Bren Michelle Chasse, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Healing from Trauma Does Not Hinge on a Survivor’s Ability to Forgive Forgiveness is an evolutionary phenomenon that, ... Read More
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How to Forgive Yourself: The Road to Self-Acceptance September 18, 2018 . 1 Comment
Being hurt and having disappointments in life are universal equalizers, as is the need to forgive. When we think of forgiveness, we often focus on the need to forgive people who have harmed ... Read More
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It’s for You, Not Them: Forgive to Help Yourself Heal July 10, 2018 . 2 Comments
Healing emotional wounds is a process of self-exploration, one that can provide endless benefits no matter what stage of life you are in. Resentment and self-loathing can be scarring if ... Read More
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7 Steps to Rebuilding Trust in Your Relationship February 8, 2018 . 35 Comments
Rebuilding trust in your relationship can be difficult after it has been broken or compromised. Depending on the nature of the offense, convincing your partner that you can be trusted again ... Read More
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Recovering from Infidelity: Why Does Forgiveness Feel So Dangerous? October 19, 2017 . 16 Comments
I believe infidelity is one of the most difficult challenges a couple can experience and attempt to recover from. In my work with people who have experienced infidelity—who may still ... Read More
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Forgive for Good: The Benefits of Forgiveness and How to Cultivate It August 24, 2017 . 6 Comments
It is a fact of life that in any sort of relationship with others, we risk being neglected, abused, rejected, lied to, or betrayed in some other way. Whether due to minor or major transgressions, ... Read More
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Apologizing with Intention: 4 Reasons Your Apology Didn’t Work June 14, 2017 . 5 Comments
Recently, I sat in session with a married couple named Dara and Mike. Speaking to one of the issues that brought them to therapy, Dara said, “Every time I tell him I don’t feel like ... Read More
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I Hate My Parents—and I Hate Myself Because of It May 5, 2017 . 58 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I’ll just say it: I hate my parents with every fiber of my being. I’m pretty sure they hate me, too. My dad beat me almost every day when I was little, ... Read More
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Forgive for Your Own Good: Getting Past Your Grievances January 24, 2017 . 9 Comments
Do you have a grievance you think about more than the positive things in your life? If so, do you think the same, repetitive thoughts about it? Do you seek out people who will listen to ... Read More
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5 Ways to Release Your Anger and Embrace Forgiveness December 13, 2016 . 7 Comments
We all experience love in one form or another. We all experience hurt and pain. It’s part of the human condition. Likewise, people can be insensitive sometimes. They say or do things ... Read More
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How Loving Yourself More Leads to Judging Others Less November 18, 2016 . 16 Comments
How we treat ourselves affects our interactions with others. If I beat myself up for not being perfect, how will I be loving toward a friend or a romantic partner who has “failed” me? ... Read More
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After the Apology: When Being Sorry Isn’t Enough May 23, 2016 . 44 Comments
All close relationships have difficult moments, times when partners feel hurt, disappointed, or frustrated with one another. But some wounds are so deep they threaten the fabric of the ... Read More