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Sometimes, the Best Closure Involves Leaving the Door Open January 25, 2017 . 8 Comments
I recently worked with someone who had his heart crushed by an individual who led him on for months, asked for his help with various tasks, accepted an invitation to go on an official date, ... Read More
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How to Help Children Grieve the Death of a Parent December 12, 2016 . 22 Comments
From the time children are born, they count on their parents to provide a sense of safety as they learn about the complex world around them. When a parent dies, it may create intense emotional ... Read More
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Remaining Present Through Both Joy and Sorrow October 21, 2016 . 17 Comments
“In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert’s there are few.” ―Shunryu Suzuki To view life with a beginner’s mind is to look at the world through ... Read More
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Am I Horrible for Not Crying at My Father’s Funeral? August 5, 2016 . 9 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I recently attended my father’s funeral, which was a very large gathering with family, friends, and people in the community. He touched many lives and was well-known ... Read More
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Why Can’t I Bond with My Kids After My Husband Died? March 25, 2016 . 10 Comments
I am so sorry for your loss. You are understandably grieving. You’ve lost your partner unexpectedly, and if that weren’t enough to cope with, you are also trying to take care of your ... Read More
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How Can I Stay Strong Knowing My Wife Has Terminal Cancer? September 4, 2015 . 31 Comments
I am so sorry to hear about your situation, and cannot imagine the pain you and your wife must be experiencing as she fights her battle against cancer. Let’s get to the root of your questions. Find ... Read More
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How We Integrate Loss: The Palpable Phenomena of Bereavement May 29, 2015 . 8 Comments
Bereavement, the grief we feel in response to the death of a loved one, is part of our being in the world. It includes different categories of loss. There is the literal loss of the unique ... Read More
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You Found Out You Can’t Have Children. Now What? April 21, 2015 . 49 Comments
It’s the big question women and men who experience infertility or secondary infertility (infertility after the loss of a baby through miscarriage or stillbirth) ask: “I can’t have ... Read More
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The Unique Grief of Mothers without Living Children March 9, 2015 . 96 Comments
In my practice, I see many mothers who have lost their only children during pregnancy or early infancy. They show up at my office struggling with grief and feelings of isolation. Some also ... Read More
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Not All Is Lost: How Grief Transforms Us July 2, 2014 . 16 Comments
“Go into your grief, for there your soul will grow.” —Carl Jung Grieving is a powerful and personal journey. It is an inevitable part of living. Eventually we all grieve something ... Read More
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Moving Forward after the Death of a Child June 4, 2014 . 53 Comments
The death of a child is one of the most difficult and traumatic events that a parent can encounter, one that will shape emotional experiences over the lifespan. Parents will encounter a ... Read More
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Sibling Loss Increases Risk of Suicide June 21, 2013 . 9 Comments
Losing a family member is one of the hardest things a person can experience. Many families pull apart and suffer extreme emotional distress after the loss of a child or parent. This is ... Read More