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Overcoming Impostor Syndrome in the Age of Social Media May 6, 2019 . No Comments
Social media enable everyone to build, create, and curate their own brand. Others interact with this personal brand, refining and changing it. This dynamic process can create a social media ... Read More
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Feeling Like You Don’t Measure Up? 7 Tips to Increase Self-Esteem July 4, 2017 . 5 Comments
Low self-esteem has become an epidemic in our society. Feelings of unworthiness and an impaired self-image can occur starting at a young age and may lead to mental health issues, including ... Read More
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4 Ways You Relinquish Power and 4 Ways to Get It Back October 3, 2016 . 8 Comments
You are surrounded by millions of people with an incredible amount of power, and they don’t even know it. The power they have comes with no effort, and often grows stronger over time. ... Read More
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The Price of Perfection: How Perfectionism Holds You Back August 16, 2016 . 8 Comments
As someone who works a lot with self-esteem, I’m always curious to know where people are with their feelings of self-worth and self-acceptance. Some enter my office reassuring me that ... Read More
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Social Inadequacy: Why We Feel It and How to Address It June 23, 2014 . 16 Comments
For people who define themselves as socially awkward, the perceived risk of being seen in endlessly negative ways—inadequate, ugly, boring, stupid, anxious, depressed, empty, arrogant, ... Read More
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Healthy Relationships Can Ease Anxiety May 14, 2014 . 6 Comments
We’ve all heard that life’s problems don’t disappear because of a romantic relationships. But according to a new German study, love really might conquer all. Researchers ... Read More
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Why Am I So Bitter and Resentful of Other People’s Successes? November 1, 2013 . 28 Comments
First, let me say that I admire your candor, your self-awareness, and your desire to work on this issue. I believe that all of these things will ultimately make you successful in addressing ... Read More
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Blaming Your Parents Hurts You Most March 11, 2013 . 162 Comments
Some people come to therapy full of negativity and anger toward parents whom they hold responsible for the way they feel and the lives they live. For example, they might explain their difficulties ... Read More
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Getting Naked: It’s Not Just About the Sex January 23, 2013 . 16 Comments
I’ll never forget the first time my friend took me to Elysian Fields, a “nudist colony” in Topanga Canyon in the Santa Monica Mountains near Los Angeles. I was twenty-something ... Read More
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Lance Armstrong, Doping, and Why Athletes Risk It All January 20, 2013 . 11 Comments
In a highly anticipated interview with Oprah Winfrey, famed cyclist Lance Armstrong has finally come clean about the allegations of doping that have haunted him for much of his unparalleled ... Read More
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What’s Draining Your Sexual Energy? January 18, 2013 . 3 Comments
Don’t wait for trouble to set in when it comes to the enriching elements of your life, such as sensuality and sexuality. Often, we are draining ourselves of the essence in our sexual, ... Read More
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How Thought Distortions Impede Our Sensual and Sexual Selves December 21, 2012 . 11 Comments
Thought distortions are common thinking “crutches,” or thinking habits, we fall into despite the lack of reality and truth in the thought. There are 10 common thought distortions we ... Read More