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The ‘Should’ Trap: Expectations, Entitlement, and Gratitude February 22, 2018 . 3 Comments
I witness daily how believing circumstances should be different can negatively affect one’s life. I observe this dilemma not only in my work as a psychologist, but in my own life. Recently, ... Read More
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I’m Impatient and Easily Irritated. Am I Depressed? June 28, 2013 . 212 Comments
When I first read your letter, I wondered if you had visited your personal physician for a checkup recently. I am not a physician, but I am aware that your irritation can be a symptom of ... Read More
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What It’s Like Inside a Depressed Person’s Head January 10, 2013 . 492 Comments
While not everyone’s experience is the same, when people have a major depressive episode, generally the world looks, feels, and is understood completely differently than before and after ... Read More
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Shame: the Silent Killer of Relationships November 21, 2012 . 22 Comments
We all know the feeling, but few of us want to talk about it. Shame often runs our lives and undermines our relationships, but we often keep it hidden. We’re ashamed of being ashamed. ... Read More
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Experiences of Depression: Irritability and Anger October 10, 2011 . 134 Comments
This article is part of a series that explores the ways specific “clusters” of depression symptoms manifest to create different experiences of depression. The previous article in this ... Read More