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How Marriage Later in Life Affects Women’s Health February 22, 2017 . 5 Comments
Marriage later in life may cause middle-aged women to gain weight, but those who divorce may see improvements in their health, according to a study published in the Journal of Women’s ... Read More
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How (Sincere) Compliments Can Help You Connect with Others February 22, 2017 . 7 Comments
As a mental health therapist, I often work with people who have difficulty making and keeping healthy friendships, as well as other relationships (coworkers, family members, partners, and ... Read More
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Helpless to Help: When Your Spouse or Partner Is Depressed February 22, 2017 . 8 Comments
When you are the spouse or partner of a person experiencing depression, you may feel stuck between wanting to help and realizing depression is a force larger than your love at times. You ... Read More
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8 Ways to Survive Sexual Dry Spells in Your Relationship February 20, 2017 . 11 Comments
Let me ease the burden of sex for you. I use the word “burden” because I know sex can feel like one sometimes. Sex may not be the most important pillar in your relationship, but how ... Read More
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5 Communication Skills Every Couple Should Develop January 25, 2017 . 12 Comments
It’s very common for couples to pursue counseling when communication issues begin to dominate their relationship. Does it ever feel like you and your partner keep missing each other on ... Read More
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Sometimes, the Best Closure Involves Leaving the Door Open January 25, 2017 . 8 Comments
I recently worked with someone who had his heart crushed by an individual who led him on for months, asked for his help with various tasks, accepted an invitation to go on an official date, ... Read More
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Is Your Ability to Receive Love Affecting the Love You Give? January 16, 2017 . 11 Comments
Recently, when I put my 6-year-old son to bed, he reminded me of something I can sometimes lose sight of, particularly when I’m anxious or worried. As I kissed him on the forehead, he ... Read More
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5 Warning Signs Therapy May Be Hazardous to Your Marriage January 11, 2017 . 26 Comments
People who are unhappy in their marriages may turn to mental health professionals for help, unaware therapy could in fact make things worse. I’m not talking about bad couples therapy, ... Read More
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10 Steps to Recovering from a Toxic Trauma Bond January 10, 2017 . 80 Comments
Trauma bonds occur in very toxic relationships, and tend to be strengthened by inconsistent positive reinforcement—or at least the hope of something better to come. Trauma bonds occur ... Read More
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No, You Don’t Have to Leave Your Cheating Spouse January 5, 2017 . 15 Comments
If infidelity has happened to you (emotional, physical, or both), you don’t have to go running to an attorney right away. Of course, separation or divorce is always an option, both now ... Read More
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Terrified People Pleasers: Why Can’t I Love and Be Loved? December 21, 2016 . 8 Comments
People pleasing is a way to reduce anxiety and eliminate stress. Some please to assure good feelings that come with positive responses like being approved of, admired, praised, or respected. ... Read More
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Help! I’m a Natural Flirt, but It’s Hurting My Partner December 9, 2016 . 14 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, My husband and I have been together for five years and have a great marriage that includes a very satisfying and active sex life. I’ve never cheated on him, ... Read More