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My Husband Left Me! Let Him Go or Fight for Our Marriage? February 26, 2016 . 13 Comments
I can only imagine the range of emotions you are experiencing after a blindside like this. Based on the information you provided, the way your husband handled the situation absolutely seems ... Read More
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When Is It OK to End a One-Sided Friendship? February 19, 2016 . 9 Comments
You know what they say: “A friend in need is a friend indeed.” I guess in this case, your part is the friend part and she’s the “in need” part. You say she calls on you when she ... Read More
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Help! I Can’t Seem to Forgive Myself for How I Treated My Ex January 22, 2016 . 11 Comments
Your very sad story is touching. You’re worried that you’ve wasted four years of your life and clearly miss the man who was your partner, and you long for the good times you spent together. ... Read More
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3 Tips to Help Your Relationship Survive an Emotional Affair January 11, 2016 . 46 Comments
I define an emotional affair as a relationship in which one or both parties are involved in another significant relationship where there is emotional intimacy, sexual chemistry, and romantic ... Read More
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8 Signs You’re in a Codependent Relationship December 30, 2015 . 12 Comments
Have you ever been in a relationship that felt as though it sapped all of your energy? If so, you may have been in a codependent relationship. Codependency is generally defined as a type ... Read More
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Why Some Couples Choose Not to Get Married December 22, 2015 . 14 Comments
Not all couples plan for a trip down the aisle. Even couples who have been in a relationship for years may choose to forgo tradition and not get married. Statistics from the Centers for ... Read More
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8 Ways to Make Sex More Enjoyable While Trying to Conceive December 4, 2015 . 10 Comments
Many couples experience a surge in sexual excitement and activity when they begin to try for a baby. They may be suddenly free from hormonal birth control methods or the barrier sensation ... Read More
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What You’re Not Saying When You Ask If Your Partner Is Angry November 16, 2015 . 8 Comments
Several minutes after I had asked my husband to skip the gym so we could go straight to a “Fall Fun Festival,” I could tell something wasn’t right. His answers to my questions were ... Read More
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Help! My Girlfriend Keeps Making Her Pets My Problem November 13, 2015 . 4 Comments
Before I try to answer your question, I have to come clean. When my husband Mark and I first met 30 years ago I lived with a 7-year-old boy, two snakes, two cats, a dog, a bunch of tropical ... Read More
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Conflict in Relationships: Do You Own Your Responsibility? October 27, 2015 . 12 Comments
Conflict in relationships is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be destructive. Many partners struggle to find ways to avoid hurt feelings without avoiding discussion altogether. ... Read More
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How to Tell Your Partner You Have a Crush on Someone Else October 22, 2015 . 24 Comments
I recently wrote about pornography use and how it doesn’t necessarily or even usually signify impending doom for a relationship. Some of the responses to the article surprised me—not ... Read More
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Help! I Feel Like I Don’t Deserve My Husband and He’ll Leave October 16, 2015 . 7 Comments
I think you have quite a bit of insight about your problem: your childhood experiences and past relationships have shaped your worldview in such a way that you don’t trust your current ... Read More