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Help! My Husband Yells at Me When I Mention Our Lack of Sex September 25, 2015 . 10 Comments
Thank you for your message and for having the courage to reach out. I’m sorry to hear that your marriage has run into some challenging times. I hope this message will prove useful and ... Read More
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Losing My Self in Your Feelings: Empathy and Identification September 25, 2015 . 6 Comments
Relationship issues and communication problems are frequent reasons many individuals and couples come to see me for therapy. One aspect of the work is to explore feelings and conflicts ... Read More
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10 Communication Problems and Mistakes We All Make September 19, 2015 . 9 Comments
Communication problems are the number one reason couples split up, with 65% of couples citing this issue as the primary cause of divorce, according to a 2013 survey. But it’s not only ... Read More
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How to Navigate Your Relationship Through Polarization September 16, 2015 . 6 Comments
When I first met my husband, I knew he was a little more frugal with money than I was. Maybe it was the coupon he brought with him to the bowling alley or the way he never hesitated to ... Read More
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5 Considerations for Relationships with a Big Age Difference September 13, 2015 . 740 Comments
A middle-aged man dating a much younger woman has long been thought of in American culture as a classic sign of midlife crisis. In some circles, dating a younger woman is a status symbol. ... Read More
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Is High-Functioning Autism an Excuse in Your Relationship? September 7, 2015 . 34 Comments
If you are involved in a relationship with a person who has been diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, officially known as high-functioning autism (HFA), you’re likely familiar with this ... Read More
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How Can I Stay Strong Knowing My Wife Has Terminal Cancer? September 4, 2015 . 31 Comments
I am so sorry to hear about your situation, and cannot imagine the pain you and your wife must be experiencing as she fights her battle against cancer. Let’s get to the root of your questions. Find ... Read More
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The Secret to Finding Time for Your Relationship August 26, 2015 . 22 Comments
“Time is the currency of relationships. There’s no way to invest into a relationship without investing your time.” —Dave Willis Time is a mystery. When we’re young, we have all ... Read More
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Should I Tell My Wife about an Affair That Ended Long Ago? August 21, 2015 . 23 Comments
Thank you for your question. It does indeed sound as though the vice-like grip of guilt has taken hold. Painful, indeed. As Pete Campbell from Mad Men said in the show’s final season ... Read More
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When Compliance in Childhood Haunts You in Adulthood August 19, 2015 . 10 Comments
What I am going to describe is what can happen when children grow up and begin to realize that they are not living their lives according to their own wishes and desires. They start to recognize ... Read More
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Does Parenthood Make People Unhappy? August 18, 2015 . 5 Comments
Many parents will readily admit that parenting is the most challenging job they have ever had. According to a new study published in Demography, becoming a parent may make people less happy, ... Read More
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5 Relationship Clichés That May Help You and Your Partner August 13, 2015 . 7 Comments
When it comes to relationships, many clichés exist for a good reason: a lot of them are true. Making and keeping long-term connections is, of course, some of the oldest and hardest work ... Read More