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The Truth about Married Sex: 4 Things Every Couple Should Know December 15, 2014 . 14 Comments
People have it all wrong about married sex. Somehow many Americans have created a fantasy that sex in marriage should look like sex when you’re dating or sex in movies—the type of sex ... Read More
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Does Jealousy Mean More Sex for Heterosexual Couples? December 13, 2014 . 5 Comments
Jealousy can be a painful and even fatal emotion, but according to one new study, it may also help spice things up in the bedroom. According to research published in the Journal of Comparative ... Read More
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I Was Once My Husband’s Mistress. Now I Can’t Trust Him! December 5, 2014 . 71 Comments
Thanks for your question. Six years is a long time to be living with this kind of uncertainty! And not only is this situation more common than you might realize, but the concept of certainty, ... Read More
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After the Thrill Is Gone: The Science of Long-Term Love December 5, 2014 . 13 Comments
Editor’s note: Mona Fishbane, PhD is a clinical psychologist and the author of Loving with the Brain in Mind: Neurobiology & Couple Therapy. Her continuing education presentation ... Read More
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How Do I Tell My Girlfriend That Her Teenage Daughter Is an Issue? November 28, 2014 . 10 Comments
It sounds like there are two main issues for you right now: managing your feelings and hesitation about dating someone with a teenage daughter, and dealing with your fears about how your ... Read More
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Could a Bad Marriage Literally Break Your Heart? November 26, 2014 . 4 Comments
A broken heart has become synonymous with the pain of romantic rejection and bad relationships. According to a new Michigan State University study, though, a bad marriage could quite literally ... Read More
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Why Hiding Who We Are Hurts Us November 20, 2014 . 12 Comments
In my first meeting with Nora and Jeff, Nora told me (actually, she was yelling and crying): “He’s so passive, he’s driving me crazy. Jeff never lets me know what he’s thinking. ... Read More
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How Couples Therapy Can Help Heal Childhood Wounds November 18, 2014 . 14 Comments
Do you want to build a case about how your partner is wrong and defective or do you want to repair the relationship? So many people come to my office wanting to convince me how wrong and/or ... Read More
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Infatuation in My Forties: Was It a Midlife Crisis? November 16, 2014 . 12 Comments
Just over three years ago I considered myself happily married and content to grow older gracefully. I was 46, working hard as a senior school teacher and raising two teenage girls. My husband, ... Read More
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How Jealousy and Depression Led Me to Spy on My Husband November 9, 2014 . 11 Comments
The matter of trust is always a burning issue, especially nowadays when technology has taken over the bigger part of our lives. With the development of social media, we forgot how to talk ... Read More
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5 Reasons You Hate Your Partner November 3, 2014 . 22 Comments
Even people who have happy relationships spend a lot of time having negative thoughts about their partner. Here’s why: You have a fantasy about how your partner should be. You are a ... Read More
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Should I Give My Emotionally Abusive Husband Another Chance? October 24, 2014 . 179 Comments
You are in a tough spot. You have been married for 16 years, and of course there’s a part of you that would love to see him change and spare all of you the challenges that come with ... Read More