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When the Urge Is Uneven: Understanding the Universe of Sexual Desire February 6, 2018 . 3 Comments
In my experience, mismatched levels of sexual desire, or libido, tops the reasons couples enter sex therapy. It’s the reason Marcie and Joe (not their real names) come to therapy weekly. ... Read More
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5 Ways ADHD Could Be Affecting Your Relationship February 6, 2018 . 4 Comments
In any relationship, there may be struggles with communication, expectations, and unmet needs. For relationships in which at least one of the partners has attention-deficit hyperactivity, ... Read More
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Putting Back Together the Pieces of a Broken Heart January 27, 2018 . 1 Comment
One of life’s greatest joys can be connecting to another soul in what may sometimes feel like a lonely world. A good relationship can be a landing on which to fall when the inevitable ... Read More
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Doing the Right Thing: Maintaining Integrity in Your Relationship January 8, 2018 . 6 Comments
What does the word “integrity” mean to you? To me, it means to be a good person and citizen, one who doesn’t lie, cheat, or steal. Having integrity means having a system ... Read More
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Working with an Uncooperative Partner: 6 Tips for Success December 20, 2017 . 12 Comments
Imagine you are in a long-term relationship that, like all relationships, has its rough patches, its areas that need improvement. You are motivated to address these difficulties in order ... Read More
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You Cheated, Now What? Healing Your Relationship After Your Affair December 20, 2017 . 15 Comments
The discovery or revelation of infidelity is one of the most difficult events a relationship can experience. In many couples, there is a sudden upheaval of emotion that threatens to swallow ... Read More
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Help! My Partner Is a Terrible Kisser December 4, 2017 . No Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, A few months ago I started dating a woman who has a lot going for her—great personality, whip-smart, professionally accomplished, lots in common including music ... Read More
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Help! My Husband Snores Terribly and Refuses to Do Anything About It November 27, 2017 . 3 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, My husband and I have been married for 27 years. About 10 years ago, his snoring became intolerable, and they ran some tests and diagnosed him with sleep apnea. They ... Read More
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Is Monogamy the Only Way? Exploring Common Myths About Nonmonogamy November 16, 2017 . 2 Comments
In Western cultures, we tend to see romantic relationships as monogamous by default and any other relationship dynamic as a failure, especially if these relationships involve sexual or ... Read More
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Your Social Brain: Wired for Love and Connection November 15, 2017 . 3 Comments
If asked what organ in the body is most instrumental for love and connection, what comes up? Do you automatically think brain? Well, you should. The brain may be the most exciting organ ... Read More
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How to Avoid Letting Social Anxiety Strain Your Relationship November 8, 2017 . 5 Comments
It is quite common to fall in love with someone who possesses qualities that balance out your own. The phrase “opposites attract” describes exactly that. There are many ways in which ... Read More
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Sensate Focus: Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body During Sex November 7, 2017 . 4 Comments
Sensate focus, developed by Masters and Johnson in the 1960s, is a technique that has been used by sex therapists for many years to help couples and individuals overcome a range of sexual ... Read More