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Help! I Can’t Stop Thinking about My Therapist November 21, 2014 . 13 Comments
Although I can’t know what is happening in your therapy and how this may pertain to your question, clearly this is an important issue, and I hope you will discuss it directly with your ... Read More
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3 Steps to Unburdening Yourself from Perfectionist Thoughts October 14, 2014 . 5 Comments
Perfectionism is one of those things that carry both positive and negative qualities, making it a tricky and complicated issue to understand. If you are detail-oriented or want the best ... Read More
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Getting Off the Merry-Go-Round: Managing Obsessive Thoughts September 23, 2014 . 6 Comments
It usually comes at the end of a long day, when you are most in need of rest and settling into the comfort of a warm bed, eager for respite. It is the arrival of “busy brain,” or “monkey ... Read More
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Ever Wondered Why You Bite the Insides of Your Cheeks? June 30, 2014 . 359 Comments
Twisted lips, contorted mouth; you know the look of someone who is biting the inside of their cheeks when they are stressed. Why do people do that? Most of us understand it as a bad habit ... Read More
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40 Years after Our Fling, Why Can’t I Forget about Her? June 13, 2014 . 23 Comments
That girl in your head—she was your first love, perhaps? And your first heartache too? You still have feelings for her, it seems, and I think that while she may have many wonderful features, ... Read More
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Why Do I Feel Intense Shame and Self-Hatred When I Masturbate? May 9, 2014 . 64 Comments
Thank you for your honest question. If anyone were to tell you that you’re “going straight to hell” for this, believe me, you’d have plenty of company on the way down—and an especially ... Read More
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Why Do I Always Seem to Assume the Worst? September 20, 2013 . 38 Comments
I see you understand yourself very well—better than most people do, in fact, and I think your understanding comes from your intellectual abilities, which I believe are way above average. ... Read More
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Are You ‘Lovesick’? July 24, 2013 . 13 Comments
Editor’s note: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is the author of The New Monogamy and Getting the Sex You Want. Her continuing education presentation for GoodTherapy.org, titled Couples in Recovery ... Read More
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Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Common in Parkinson’s April 22, 2013 . 5 Comments
Individuals with Parkinson’s disease (PD) often have personality features that mimic those found in depression, anxiety, and even obsessive compulsion (OC). Behaviors such as extreme ... Read More
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Excoriation: What Is It and Why Is It in the DSM-5? December 23, 2012 . 38 Comments
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders serves as the “bible” of mental health practitioners, who rely on it to match diagnostic criteria with behaviors. The American ... Read More
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Mysophobia: the Fear of Germs October 24, 2012 . 42 Comments
Most people experience some form of irrational fear or anxiety, and many are concerned about germs and disease in particular. Amid a flurry of films and media reports about antibiotic-resistant ... Read More
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Extended-Release Luvox May Ease Obsessive Behavior October 11, 2012 . No Comments
Obsessive compulsion (OCD) can begin with obsessive, irrational thoughts and fears. These irrational thoughts are followed by ritualistic actions, such as repetitive hand washing, door ... Read More