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The Great Divide: How Dissociation Can Affect Relationships June 28, 2016 . 15 Comments
Dissociation is a way people, to varying degrees, disconnect from their thoughts and feelings in order to avoid pain or traumatic memories. It is a refuge of sorts into an altered state ... Read More
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Vicarious Trauma and the Value of Self-Care for Therapists June 27, 2016 . 10 Comments
People are drawn to the helping professions for many different reasons. They may feel a calling to assist in relieving others’ suffering and to help them heal from their emotional wounds. ... Read More
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Trauma and Dissociation: Beyond Your ‘Window of Tolerance’ June 23, 2016 . 24 Comments
If you are already working on healing from a history of trauma, dissociation is likely a familiar concept. You are likely aware it is a system of coping that, in times of distress, offers ... Read More
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7 Personality Characteristics That Help in Managing Trauma June 22, 2016 . 8 Comments
Psychological trauma, defined as the experience of an event in which a person feels their life is threatened or in danger, may be accompanied by a sense of helplessness, horror, or numbing ... Read More
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Trauma and the Body: When Anniversaries Aren’t So Happy June 9, 2016 . 7 Comments
When we think about anniversaries, we often think about celebrations and the observation of long-term commitments. However, some anniversaries aren’t necessarily well remembered and can ... Read More
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Complex PTSD: Response to Prolonged Trauma June 5, 2016 . 146 Comments
Posttraumatic stress (PTSD) can severely interfere with functioning, resulting in intrusive memories, depression, disrupted sleep, anxiety, and avoidance of situations that bring back ... Read More
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How Trauma Can Undermine a Marriage (and How to Fix It) May 23, 2016 . 6 Comments
Marriages are often perceived by those who aren’t in them or by those who have suffered in them to be a place of restriction, resentment, and lack of understanding. Many other people, ... Read More
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Complex Trauma: Yes, EMDR Can Help, but It’s No Quick Fix April 25, 2016 . 15 Comments
Fourteen years ago, when I was first trained in EMDR therapy, there was less of an understanding of its benefits, as well as a lot of confusion about what eye movement desensitization and ... Read More
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I Was Sexually Abused by My Stepfather. Do I Have PTSD? March 18, 2016 . 10 Comments
I imagine it took a lot of courage to share this deeply painful experience with a doctor and to write in and share it here, too. It seems like you are ready to begin to address the past ... Read More
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Trauma Recovery: Unlinking Fear and Danger in the Brain March 10, 2016 . 17 Comments
“Why do I feel scared even when I’m not in danger?” This question, or something approximating it, is one of the most commonly asked by people seeking treatment for trauma, many of ... Read More
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Healing Complex Trauma, Part II: The Path to Integration January 26, 2016 . 14 Comments
Editor’s note: This article represents the second of two parts. The first part moves from disconnection to autopilot, then from autopilot to self-awareness. “Until you make the unconscious ... Read More
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Why I Don’t Use the Word ‘Forgiveness’ in Trauma Therapy January 20, 2016 . 164 Comments
If the title of this article threw you off a bit, it’s OK—I understand why it would. After all, forgiveness is quite the hot topic. Religious leaders, spiritual gurus, and even some ... Read More