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Relationship Fairness: What a 50/50 Balance Means August 26, 2013 . 15 Comments
In this day and age, people want equal relationships. We want to be treated fairly and share the responsibilities of our relationships. But an equitable, 50/50 relationship does not mean ... Read More
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Forgiveness Is a Journey, Not a Destination July 23, 2013 . 18 Comments
Many years ago, I was betrayed by a friend I admired. If I had been asked to forgive her, my immediate answer would have been, “No.” But if someone had asked if I wanted to be free ... Read More
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When One Person Changes in a Relationship May 20, 2013 . 4 Comments
What happens to a relationship when one person changes? “Vanessa” is on a path of self-discovery and change, but that does not mean that her husband, “Mark,” is on the same path. ... Read More
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Caring for Each Other After a Miscarriage October 24, 2011 . 15 Comments
The loss of a child before it is born naturally stirs intense and conflicting emotions. Women might feel an intense physical bonding and grief for a being with whom they have already grown ... Read More
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Boredom in Therapy: A Natural Form of Resistance April 15, 2011 . 8 Comments
Lois has five minutes left to her fifth session and is now having a flash of insight. “I’m bored to death with therapy,” she thinks. “This is getting me nowhere.” She feels ... Read More