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“That Never Happened” — Experiencing Gaslighting August 30, 2021 . 1 Comment
by Allie Dainow, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), in Toronto, ON, Canada “That Never Happened” — Experiencing Gaslighting What Is Gaslighting? Gaslighting is when someone ... Read More
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Overcoming Impostor Syndrome in the Age of Social Media May 6, 2019 . No Comments
Social media enable everyone to build, create, and curate their own brand. Others interact with this personal brand, refining and changing it. This dynamic process can create a social media ... Read More
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Where Does Self-Esteem Come From and How Can I Develop It? July 3, 2018 . 4 Comments
Self-esteem has been a pop psychology topic for decades. People often focus on it in therapy. We often speak about it with flowery and shallow language, though there is a plethora of research ... Read More
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Help! I’m Having Second Thoughts About Quitting My Job October 27, 2017 . 5 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I left my job about two months ago, run-down and on the brink of something drastic because of how miserable I was. It was an extremely high-stress job in finance, ... Read More
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Why We Ignore Our Intuition and How to Overcome Self-Doubt June 21, 2017 . 6 Comments
“Why didn’t I just listen to myself—I knew what I needed to do all along and I ignored it!” If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Trusting our gut is tricky business, and ... Read More
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Lonely Journey: My Struggle to Cope with My Son’s Bipolar Diagnosis April 28, 2017 . 7 Comments
In August of 2014, in the middle of the night, a phone call came: My son was unresponsive and was being transferred to the hospital. I remember the 30-minute drive to the hospital, trying ... Read More
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Breaking the Chains: Finding Relief from a Harsh Superego April 26, 2017 . 10 Comments
Have you ever thought, “I’m my own worst enemy”? Do you ever feel plagued by a relentlessly critical internal voice? Perhaps you feel stuck and find it difficult to think creatively ... Read More
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By Judging Others, Are You Really Judging Yourself? September 27, 2016 . 10 Comments
“If you are pained by external things, it is not they that disturb you, but your own judgment of them. And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now.” —Marcus Aurelius I wonder ... Read More
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Does Therapy for Low Self-Esteem Really Work? May 20, 2016 . 25 Comments
How can being in therapy improve your self-esteem? Once we understand both the roots of self-esteem and the essence of therapy, the answer becomes clear. Self-esteem has been described ... Read More
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What Keeps People from Pursuing Their Hopes and Dreams? November 30, 2015 . 5 Comments
I want to be loved. I want to be fit. I want to have a job I’m proud of. We all have hopes and dreams, but sometimes we take too little action to make them come true. What is it that ... Read More
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How 15 Positive Affirmations Can Change Your Life September 23, 2015 . 15 Comments
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t—you’re right.” —Henry Ford When Henry Ford first conceived of the V8 motor, his engineers told him it was simply ... Read More
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Good to Know: Why We Think the Way We Think September 8, 2015 . 10 Comments
Knowledge is a powerful resource for navigating life. We have endless internal dialogues that assist with interpretation of information and decision-making. Knowing why we think the way ... Read More