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How Does Pageant Culture Affect Participants’ Self-Esteem? February 23, 2017 . 7 Comments
I was recently asked for my thoughts on pageant culture and its relationship to self-esteem. First, let me say I don’t have a lot of experience with pageant culture. Much of my knowledge ... Read More
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What Does It Mean to Feel Beautiful? January 31, 2017 . 7 Comments
Unfortunately, all too often, I speak to people who struggle with their self-image. For the purpose of being entirely transparent, I sometimes do, too. Here are things that sometimes surface ... Read More
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Examining the Role of FOMO in Social Media and Self-Esteem October 27, 2016 . 6 Comments
New research has strengthened the belief that the fear of missing out (FOMO) is a legitimate phenomenon with threatening implications for psychological well-being. The rapid pace of modern ... Read More
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4 Ways You Relinquish Power and 4 Ways to Get It Back October 3, 2016 . 8 Comments
You are surrounded by millions of people with an incredible amount of power, and they don’t even know it. The power they have comes with no effort, and often grows stronger over time. ... Read More
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By Judging Others, Are You Really Judging Yourself? September 27, 2016 . 10 Comments
“If you are pained by external things, it is not they that disturb you, but your own judgment of them. And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now.” —Marcus Aurelius I wonder ... Read More
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The Price of Perfection: How Perfectionism Holds You Back August 16, 2016 . 8 Comments
As someone who works a lot with self-esteem, I’m always curious to know where people are with their feelings of self-worth and self-acceptance. Some enter my office reassuring me that ... Read More
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Study: Tinder Use Linked to Negative Psychological Effects August 15, 2016 . 2 Comments
Tinder users may feel less satisfied with their bodies and appearance, and male Tinder users tend to have lower self-esteem than non-Tinder users, according to a study presented at the ... Read More
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Does Therapy for Low Self-Esteem Really Work? May 20, 2016 . 25 Comments
How can being in therapy improve your self-esteem? Once we understand both the roots of self-esteem and the essence of therapy, the answer becomes clear. Self-esteem has been described ... Read More
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‘Should’ This, ‘Should’ That: Learning to Embrace What Is May 4, 2016 . 9 Comments
As a therapist, I hear the word “should” often. Usually it appears just before a spike in anxiety, a precipitous drop in self-esteem, or a sudden crying jag: “I should be over this ... Read More
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Overcoming FOMO: What Fuels Your Fear of Missing Out? April 18, 2016 . 10 Comments
Earlier this year, the Powerball jackpot soared to $1.5 billion dollars. Ticket sales went through the roof. People who never played the lottery before were suddenly buying handfuls of ... Read More
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Thinspiration: The Dangers of a Pro-Ana/Pro-Mia Lifestyle April 15, 2016 . 14 Comments
Editor’s note: The subject matter in this article may be triggering for those who experience body image issues, those coping with an eating disorder, and those who are in recovery. The ... Read More
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Inspiring Your Own Joy: The Lessons of Pixar’s ‘Inside Out’ February 18, 2016 . 5 Comments
Someone I’m working with in therapy recently asked me whether I’ve seen Pixar’s Inside Out. Shortly after, a friend of mine asked the same question, saying, “You would love it. ... Read More