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Same Sexual Orientation of Therapist and Client May Affect Therapy Outcome October 6, 2011 . 5 Comments
Lesbian, gay and bisexual (LGB) clients may form better alliances with therapists who have similar sexual orientations, according to a new study. This new study done by researchers at the ... Read More
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The Sensory Detective: Finding Sensory Integration Clues to Sexual Dysfunction September 26, 2011 . 10 Comments
Non-demand touch, such as hand massage and other “sensate focus” exercises, are still recommended by many sex therapists who want to help couples struggling with sexual difficulties. ... Read More
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Why Do Women in Committed Relationships Lose Sexual Desire? September 2, 2011 . 112 Comments
How often do you want sex? And is that enough? Not wanting enough sex is the big problem for most women who consult me as a clinical sexologist. And most sex therapists will agree that ... Read More
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An Introduction to Clinical Sexology August 30, 2011 . 8 Comments
As a unique form of short-term, complementary and alternative modality (CAM), clinical sexologists are largely under-recognized and under-used. Though it’s said we specialize in studying ... Read More
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Breaking the Cycle of Being TOO Comfortable in Your Relationship August 23, 2011 . 12 Comments
There is a place where most couples want to get and feel good about getting to, a place where most people would agree is what a wonderful long term relationship is all about. That lovely ... Read More
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Can Friendship After a Lesbian Breakup Work? August 2, 2011 . 100 Comments
For people who are dating or dealing with the starting and ending of intimate relationships, a certain question tends to arise… can ex-partners maintain healthy roles in each others’ ... Read More
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Infidelity Can Enhance Your Relationship August 2, 2011 . 5 Comments
I would like to be quite clear. Infidelity hurts. Infidelity is destructive. I am not suggesting infidelity. However, when cheating happens in a relationship it does not have to be the ... Read More
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Exploring Alternative Lifestyles in Your Relationship July 25, 2011 . 33 Comments
It’s a pretty well known fact that ‘happily ever after’ is a concept that is often easier said than done. People still cling to and admire the ideals of a long-term commitment and ... Read More
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Balancing Codependent Tendencies: Improving Relationships through Self-Care July 5, 2011 . 24 Comments
Are you a person who takes care of everyone else before yourself? Do you believe you should put yourself last? If you routinely take care of others’ needs before your own, then you ... Read More
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The Good and Bad Sides of Porn June 22, 2011 . 89 Comments
I want to start off by saying that pornography in and of itself is not a ‘bad’ thing. We have preconceived notions about porn being something bad. Men feel guilty about it. Women feel ... Read More
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Depression Medications: Side Effects and Libido, a Follow-Up February 23, 2011 . 14 Comments
Since my last blog, Depression Medications: How Can You Get Your Libido Back? a number of you have asked for more information about possible sexual side effects caused by antidepressants. ... Read More
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“Evolve” not Resolve – Relationship Evolution for 2011 January 13, 2011 . 29 Comments
As the New Year begins, we think about resolutions. Though couples may have resolved to have a better relationship, resolve their differences, have less conflict, it occurred to us that ... Read More