My Approach to Helping
I believe that you have a "knowing" inside of you that, when the overwhelm, confusion or hurt subsides during a session, guides you to perceiving the same situation in a more centered and detached way.
You could say that you are tapping into your "Wise Woman" or Wise Man" that is there but the frantic chatter of everyday life prevents you from trusting and relying on, or even knowing it is there.